I have always enjoyed a good movie. It’s one of the things I miss about not being able to get out and go places now. However, you don’t have to go out to see a movie anymore; you can now do it in the comfort of your own home and with the benefit of a […]
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When I was trying to decide what to write about this week, I had a hard time coming up with something unique. I’ve touched on many of the hardships and challenges associated with being a caregiver, but as I look out the window at all the new growth for spring, I am also thinking of all
I follow the writings of another caregiver, Patrick, who has been caring for his wife, who has MS, for 22 years. Patrick recently discovered he had cancer, and one of the comments he made in his blog struck home with me. Patrick described how he hid the truth of his illness from his wife so
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If you are a caregiver for someone dependent on you for everything, you know that there is no such thing as a “quick run” anywhere when you take the person you are caring for with you. Today, Lynn and I had an appointment with an attorney to sign our wills, power of attorney, and medical
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I thought I was beyond grieving about how things had changed. …or maybe we are never completely finished grieving over the loss. It seems to come back when you’re not expecting it, which, in many ways, makes it harder to handle. Here’s what brought it on this week. Every morning, as I’m preparing Lynn’s morning
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I’m going to be a grandma for the first time in June! My daughter is having a little boy, and I’ve been more than a little excited since the first moment I heard the news (which was about two days after she knew she was pregnant). She and her husband are going to make great
It is Lynn’s belief that if he accepts that he has MS, then he is allowing MS to “have” him. He says that he has seen enough people who are struggling along, maybe feeling bad, but still going along until they find out they have a serious condition. Then, as soon as they accept that they
When I was a child, I loved working pencil and paper puzzles. You know the ones I’m talking about? There were dots, numbers, or letters on a page and as you connected the dots, a picture emerged. What I did not realize at the time was that doing those pictures was actually very educational. I
In 2010, I was going to work every day, and Lynn stayed home alone. At that time, he was still walking, though he would lose his balance frequently and fall. However, being the stubborn man he was, he chose not to use his rollator unless absolutely necessary (i.e., he was too tired or had too
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As I have been reading blogs written by other caregivers or MS patients, that joke that goes around, “How many xxx does it take to….” comes to mind. When Lynn was first diagnosed, I had a basic knowledge of MS and figured that he would have a neurologist to manage all his care, but what
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When I started blogging, I had no idea what I was doing. I had heard about blogging but since I don’t have a lot of free time, I had not read many blogs. Then, while Lynn was in the hospital, I was talking to a nurse whose husband also had MS, and we talked about
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One of the readers of my blog shared that she had heard of a diet to help people with MS. She had a video of Terry Wahl talking about it. I was amazed as I watched the video that it was the exact diet that Lynn’s dietician has him on. He started this diet the