Someone recently asked me about working from home. Like me, they had someone they wanted to care for but needed a full-time income. Knowing that I worked from home, they asked me what type of job would allow that option. I’ve done a lot of research into telework or telecommuting. Having worked full-time from home for […]
Lynn’s favorite band ever is RUSH. For years, he, his son, his son’s friends, and Lynn’s friends have bought tickets to their concert as soon as they went on sale and anxiously awaited the day they could see them live. It used to be a fairly big production with a group of 5 or 6
Shortly after we returned from vacation, my daughter started having a lot of right-sided pain just under her ribcage and nausea. It was getting worse after a week instead of it getting better. She called me to “consult” on what I thought it might be (nurse to nurse). I ruled out liver problems and thought
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For most people, deciding to go somewhere is simply a matter of making the decision to go and then going. For people who are mobilized through the power of a wheelchair, that process is a little more complex. Lynn and I have not been to church since he was hospitalized almost two years ago. He
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As a caregiver, I’m asked to assume many roles–comforter, nurse, counselor, banker, chauffeur, and many others; but the one role that I really hate is being the man of the house. I’m sure the same holds true for men who are caregivers to women. I would venture to say that most caregivers are satisfied with
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My journal entries often discuss the challenges of being a caregiver, but today, I want to share a blessing—my church family. Before Lynn was diagnosed with MS, he and I were very involved in our church. We both were in choir; I helped produce drama enactments to support the sermon; Lynn played drums
We were on vacation when I wrote this blog this week. I could not post a blog this week because, unknown to us, the condo we use changed its practice this past year, and each homeowner must now provide their own internet service to their renters. The homeowner for the one we rented decided internet
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The life of a caregiver and their “caree” is always in such a delicate balance that I think of that old saying, “Don’t tip over the apple cart.” When I hear that analogy, I imagine a small cart piled high with apples, holding its own until someone puts one too many apples on the pile,
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Have you ever thought about how many choices you make in a day? Mine start before I open my eyes Wonder if Lynn will know I’m awake if I pretend to still be asleep. What time do I have to get up to be ready by xxx? Do I want to get up now or lie here? Those
In the early days of my journey as an MS Caregiver, Lynn would fall, or we would get into a situation that was difficult and we would look at each other and laugh. We coped with a lot of our hardships by laughing at how bizarre the situation would become as compared to
One night this week, just about bedtime, I became very nauseated and started feeling really lousy. It had the feel of when I’m about to have an allergic reaction to something. I have lots of food allergies, and I often find out about a new one through several hours of agony and being
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For most of us, if we get a cut or scrape or even a deeper laceration, we start to heal immediately and in a few days or weeks, it’s much improved. The skin has miraculous healing powers. Immediately after a cut, the body clots the bleeding, sending white cells and special chemicals to the site
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